day one: your response to everyone’s favorite question: “and why are YOU still single?”

i absolutely hate this question, passionately. my response to this is usually "because i haven't met a person who i want to share time and space with on a consistent basis, yet."

i usually get asked this question by men i'm meeting for the first time, who are seeing the qualities they would desire in a mate. what they don't see are my expectations. in the past year and a half that i've been single, i've dated about a dozen men, never fully committing to one, always accepting applications.

so i think the reason i'm still single is because i haven't been willing to fully commit to one person, because i think i'll miss out on someone better.